Because valuing low-maintenance friends above others is some toxic-positivity, ableist B.S.
My friends didn’t choose most of what makes them either high, low, or even medium-maintenance. Whether that be disability, trauma, neurodivergence, poverty, mental illness, or none of the above.
A lot of the factors that make a person so-called high-maintenance are outside of their control in the first place.
Our maintenance level changes hourly.
Read my article on Illumination.